So how do I evaluate the experience? I'm not sure it's necessary to do so too deeply, but a few things. I can do the bachelor thing if I have to. I don't want to. I don't like it. But I can do it. There were many things I missed with having my wife away. Some of them had to do with things she does for me, but I also missed her and that enhanced my love for her. And I discovered some things that I can do to show her my love. She works very hard for me and I have taken much of that for granted. But now that I've learned how to do some laundry and other such things, I can help her do some of that. I know it won't automatically mean that I will and I know myself well enough to know how easily I can slip into old habits, but the time apart and having to do it all myself has made me more sensitive.
A humorous short story of adjustment to close. I woke up in the middle of the night last night sensing that someone was wandering around my bedroom. I felt a shot of fear for a few seconds. Who's in my house? In my room? Then I realized that I wasn't living alone any longer and my wife was up to the bathroom! I thankfully and happily turned over and went back to sleep.
Grace and peace,
Dave
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